Maggie and Joe kinda remind me of a motorboat on a tranquil lake.  He’s just so calm and grounded and she is such a determined forward looking individual.  They met while at Chapman University.  Maggie is going on to get her Masters there and is also on staff.  Joe is studying to become a lawyer.  They both are intelligent and hard working.  They seem to be an incredible support system of one another.  They need each other and they appreciate each other.  Most importantly, they are best friends.

On an incredibly special note, my mom is in the same bunco group as Maggie’s mom Adrienne and they are great friends.  Maggie and Joe were supposed to get married in August of this year.  But three weeks before the wedding, doctors found a serious brain tumor in Adrienne.  So Maggie and Joe postponed the wedding until further notice.  This news hit me  hard.  My mother has had her own battles with less serious brain tumors, so I could relate to the situation.  I also had been over to Adrienne’s for bunco myself and just love her.  My mother kept me updated about Adrienne’s progress.  She also kept me informed of how amazing Maggie was during this difficult time for her family.  My mom says she was (and still is) such a source of strength.  My mother also commented on the support she saw Joe giving Maggie and the bond she witnessed between them.

It was an incredible experience to be present on this day.  A wedding is one of the most important days of our lives, but for Maggie and Joe to be able to have this day with her Mother and Father present gave a much deeper meaning to experience.  We can easily forget to be grateful for the little things, but on this day Maggie and Joe did not forget.  They knew the blessing that they had.  Ian’s father died before our wedding and though our wedding day was an amazing celebration, I know that Ian still felt something missing.  Maggie was able to have her mother with her as she put on her dress, as she walked down the aisle, and as she had her first dance with her new husband.

So needless to say, every time I watch Maggie and Joe’s film, I can’t help but be overwhelmed with emotion and attempt, as futile as it may be, to fight back the tears.  Maggie and Joe have the most amazing families.  This wedding day was truly a beautiful miracle…

{wedding day details}
Agape Planning:  wedding planner & coordination
Richard Nixon Library: venue
White House Catering: catering
Dawn @ Jim Kennedy Photographers: photography
Pronovias: bride’s dress
Kelly & Katie: bride’s shoes
Jim Hjelm: bridesmaid’s dresses
Jenny B Floral: flowers
Visions Entertainment: dj

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